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Our Review

RSVP boasts about being 'Australia's No.1 Dating Site' with some big statistics of how many people they have helped connect, including that '1 in 3 couples that met online, met on RSVP',

The site has both desktop and mobile functionality with apps across both iOS and Android devices and it offers a number of special features that other dating sites don't.

The majority of members are 25+ and members appear to be active on the site frequently.  

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RSVP Member Structure

2,000,000 from Australia
Members activity
1,500,000 active weekly
Gender Proportion
50 %
50 %

    Age Distribution

    • 18-24
    • 25-34
    • 35-44
    • 45-54
    • 55+

    Signing Up at RSVP

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      Signing up is easy. RSVP encourages you to upload a photo as 'profiles with photos get 11x more contact', but it is not mandatory. 

      To get started you only need to answer 10 basic questions such as marital status, height, if you have children, smoker status and what you are looking for in a partner.

      Making Contact on RSVP

      RSVP Contacting Members
      • You can send a free 'kiss' first to gauge if that person would be interested
      • You must buy 'stamps' to send others members a personalised message
      • If you send a message to someone and they do not open the email within 30 days, you will receive a credit
      • After sending a message, you have 30 days of unlimited communication on the site
      • There is a chatroom
      • Kisses are free, replying to a message or chat request is also free

      RSVP Profile Quality

      • Profiles can show a lot of information about other members
      • Information includes free text and predefined criteria on physical appearance, interests and type of relationship a user is after
      • Most users seem to have put a lot of effort into completing their profiles
      • The majority of profiles appear to be genuine
      • The profiles are very detailed
      • The profile information can be changed later
      • Profile pictures are visible to everyone for free

      RSVP App


        RSVP has a mobile app for both Android and Apple, as well as a mobile site that works the same as the app. The app provides most of the functionality of the desktop site including signing up, creating your profile, searching and browsing member profiles, contacting users and managing your account.

        RSVP Real Life Review

        Rebecca, Teacher, 31 - After breaking up with my long term partner of 7 years, I was keen to get back into dating with the aim of finding a relationship, but I found most sites were full of guys just looking for a 'hook up'. I joined RSVP, completed my profile and personality test reviewed my matches sent to me each day for the next week. A few sent me kiss messages, but one sent me an email straight away. We both matched each other's Ideal Partner criteria and we hit it off via email quickly. About a week later we started speaking on the phone, then we caught up for coffee the following week. We took it slowly, dating once or twice a week for a few months and now we have been together for over a year. It was so easy and I'm glad that I went online to look for a relationship.


        RSVP is a really easy site to navigate and their search functionality works really well. Updating your profile and making contact with other users is simple and very user friendly.

        RSVP Costs and Prices

        Free Services
        • Kiss
          Users can select from a number of template messages to send to other members to see if they would be interested in making contact.
        • Replying to Emails
          Paid or free members can respond to messages sent from other members.
        Fee-Based Services
        • Sending Emails
          To send a message to another user you must buy 'stamps', or have a paid membership that includes stamps.
        Duration / Credits / CoinsCostsTotal
        3 Stamps
        3 stamps entitle you to send 3 email messages to other users and you have 30 days of unlimited chat thereafter. Stamps are valid for 1 month and will expire if unused.
        3 Stamps15.00 AUD / Stamp45.00 AUD
        6 Stamps
        6 stamps entitle you to send 6 email messages to other users and you have 30 days of unlimited chat thereafter. Stamps are valid for 3 months and will expire if unused.
        6 Stamps11.67 AUD / Stamp70.00 AUD
        12 Stamps
        12 stamps entitle you to send 12 email messages to other users and you have 30 days of unlimited chat thereafter. Stamps are valid for 6 months and will expire if unused.
        12 Stamps7.50 AUD / Stamp90.00 AUD
        24 Stamps
        24 stamps entitle you to send 24 email messages to other users and you have 30 days of unlimited chat thereafter. These stamps have no expiry.
        24 Stamps5.00 AUD / Stamp120.00 AUD
        Standout Membership
        Standout membership can be used alongside purchasing stamps to standout from the crowd by appearing at the top of search results. You also get extra features.
        1 Month14.00 AUD / Month14.00 AUD
        Premium Membership
        You get all the features of Standout Membership, plus the ability to control your visibility for privacy and filtering of kiss messages.
        1 Month20.00 AUD / Month20.00 AUD
        Membership + Stamps
        All the features of Premium Membership, plus 3 stamps per month.
        1 Month56.00 AUD / Month56.00 AUD
        Payment Options
        • Credit Card
        • PayPal
        Payment discretion
        • Payments will appear on your credit card statement as 'RSVP - Sydney'

        Paid memberships will automatically renew each month unless cancelled, but this is easily managed via the Payment Management page. If you purchased your membership via a iOS device, it is a little trickier to cancel as you must do so via Apple iTunes.

        Special Features

        Ideal Partner

        Users can browse other members profiles, or search by nominating specific criteria of what they are interested in. Members can also store their preferred search criteria as their 'Ideal Partner' profile which other users will see on their profile.


        RSVP also offers matching where members receive regular matches and profile suggestions via email based on 2-way ideal partner criteria, as well as profile information. If you have a premium membership, you also get the option of pre-approving all matches first. 

        Personality Report

        RSVP offer a survey that takes just 15 minutes to complete and you receive a 5 page personality report documenting how you view the world. These results can be used with a paid membership to see how compatible you are with other members on the site.

        Our rating

        Signing Up: 4.0 / 5
        Making Contact: 4.0 / 5
        Profile Quality: 4.5 / 5
        App: 4.5 / 5
        Real Life Review: 4.5 / 5

        Editor's Conclusion Author Chris Pleines
        RSVP offers members a safe and secure environment for singles predominantly looking for relationships. The site appears to have a high proportion of active paid members, a further indication that members are serious and genuine about meeting others if they are willing to commit money to the cause. It offers a good balance of being able to search or browse profiles, as well as a matchmaking function based on ideal partner characteristics. RSVP has a large membership base, so it is definitely worth trying as you have a good chance of meeting someone you click with.

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        Latest RSVP Experiences

        • Alla*** 61 years

          What a ripoff . I was taking a break from the site and they automaticly charged me a nother months fees at $56 . they claim that there term are clear... but I found it in small print and in a difficult place to find that they can auto debit your card . Im not impressed with there performanc at all and after my current month has gone I will be deleating my account and never coming back . Bunch of ripoffs «»

        • Andr*** 45 years

          This site has Poor profiles that once engaged with the recipient they do not reply for some reason or reply saying some excuse after you have used a s... tamp. Once you had used your stamps on time wasters you receive a special messages from RSVP offering discounts .I do not get a $36 Membership charge on top of your stamp fees. there is NO incentives. Most memberships carry incentives however noting here. «»

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