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Sydney Singles

Sydney gives you plenty of people to meet, but its size can make dating feel oddly anonymous. Around 3.9 million people live across the metro area, including about 425,700 singles. The trick is choosing a service and a meeting spot that fit how far you are willing to travel.
425,700singles in Sydney
What are you looking for in Sydney?

Beyond the usual Tinder, Bumble & Hinge, why don't you try:

Eharmony Logo eharmony ★★★★★ i5 If you're looking for long-term relationships that might eventually lead to marriage, then eharmony might be the site for you. For serious dating Try eharmony for free Review ~45,000 members in Sydney 23,900 ♀ · 21,200 ♂

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Key facts

Serious relationshipFind love
Pricing: Average
Men / women: 47% / 53%

Where demand is highest

The darker a region, the more often this provider is searched for there. 100% marks the region with the highest demand; 50% means half as many searches.

eharmony is a matchmaking site for singles who are looking for serious commitments. It provides an in-depth knowledge of your match through the required personality and character tests. If you are looking for a long-term relationship and would want to settle …

singles 50 logo Singles50 ★★★★★ i5 Singles50 is the website where singles in their prime (40+ year olds) communicate and meet up. For serious datingFor fun & flirting Try Singles50 for free Review ~37,300 members in Sydney 15,300 ♀ · 22,000 ♂

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Key facts

Serious relationshipFlirtingFind love
Pricing: High
Men / women: 59% / 41%

Singles50 is a niche matchmaking website where members are strictly managed so that only 40+ singles are registered. Their matchmaking system helps members calculate your similarities and compatibility, so if you are single and over 40 try this site out for f…

Secret Benefits Logo Secret Benefits ★★★★★ i5 Secret Benefits claims that they have millions of generous mature men and attractive women. Is this true? Let's find out! For serious datingFor casual datingFor fun & flirting Try Secret Benefits for free Review ~20,400 members in Sydney 5,100 ♀ · 15,300 ♂

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Key facts

Serious relationshipFlirtingCasual dating
Pricing: Average
Men / women: 75% / 25%

Where demand is highest

The darker a region, the more often this provider is searched for there. 100% marks the region with the highest demand; 50% means half as many searches.

Secret Benefits gives both the Sugar Baby and the Sugar Daddy a simple and straightforward platform to find and arrange dates. Thus, if you are into sugar dating, and would like to experience this fast and no-fuss service, try the site today!

TSDates Logo TSDates ★★★★★ i5 TSDates is an online dating platform mainly for transvestites (TV), transsexuals (TS), and transgenders (TG) looking for some exciting casual affairs and sexual entertainment. For casual dating Try TSDates for free Review ~280 members in Sydney 70 ♀ · 210 ♂

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Key facts

Erotic adventuresHookupsCasual dating
Pricing: Average
Men / women: 75% / 25%

TSDates is not just a dating platform where you can find casual dates or real relationships. It's not just a good place to find sources for adult sites or a home for those who want to take their sexual experiences to new heights. Try TSDates now to experience…

adultfriendfinder-logo-resize-eng Adultfriendfinder ★★★★★ i8 AdultFriendFinder caters to an adult audience and has content to satisfy all of your sexual fantasies. For casual datingFor open relationships & swinging Try Adultfriendfinder for free Review ~234,500 members in Sydney 53,900 ♀ · 180,600 ♂

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Key facts

Casual datingHookupsSwingersErotic adventures
Pricing: Average
Men / women: 77% / 23%

Where demand is highest

The darker a region, the more often this provider is searched for there. 100% marks the region with the highest demand; 50% means half as many searches.

AdultFriendFinder's strength is in its vast membership base all over the globe. If you are someone looking for casual fun, this site might work well for you. Check it out now.

60sDating Logo 60sDating ★★★★★ i5 60sDating is a matchmaking service for senior hopefuls seeking love and relationships. For serious dating Try 60sDating for free Review ~2,930 members in Sydney 1,200 ♀ · 1,730 ♂

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Key facts

Find loveSerious relationshipFriendship
Pricing: Average
Men / women: 59% / 41%

60sDating is a wonderful service for senior daters seeking long-term partnerships and romance since it follows safe dating guidelines and matches you with others who share your interests.

Tawkify Logo Tawkify ★★★★★ i4 Know about Tawkify's dating services in this review! For serious dating Try Tawkify for free Review ~2,210 members in Sydney 990 ♀ · 1,220 ♂

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Serious relationship
Pricing: High
Men / women: 55% / 45%

Tawkify is one unique online matchmaking service provider. It does not have too many frills and the service is easy to understand. It is perfect for young singles who are always on the go and only have little time for dating. For these reasons, joining Tawkif…

logo SDC ★★★★★ i4 Is SDC the perfect swingers date club that can satisfy your most intense desires? Or is it just another money-profiteering dating platform? Check our review and find out everything you need to know about SDC! For casual datingFor open relationships & swinging Try SDC for free Review ~110 members in Sydney 40 ♀ · 70 ♂

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Key facts

SwingersErotic adventures
Pricing: High
Men / women: 67% / 33%

Where demand is highest

The darker a region, the more often this provider is searched for there. 100% marks the region with the highest demand; 50% means half as many searches.

If you're a swinger looking for real fun and excitement, then SDC might be the home for you. It's more than that as it offers parties, events, travels, and other exhilarating features. This home for swingers actually values your privacy. Want to try out the l…

logo Ashley Madison ★★★★★ i9 Ashley Madison is a dating platform focused on discreet connections and privacy. For casual datingFor fun & flirting Try Ashley Madison for free Review ~80,300 members in Sydney 24,100 ♀ · 56,200 ♂

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Key facts

FlirtingHookupsAffairs
Pricing: High
Men / women: 70% / 30%

Where demand is highest

The darker a region, the more often this provider is searched for there. 100% marks the region with the highest demand; 50% means half as many searches.

Ashley Madison creates a dating environment for people exploring discreet connections on their own terms. If you want to meet like-minded individuals who value privacy and personal choice, this might be the platform for you. Join Ashley Madison today to exper…

RedHotPie Logo Red Hot Pie ★★★★★ i4 Want to spice up your dating game? Check out how it works on RedHotPie and see what the site can offer! For casual datingFor open relationships & swinging Try Red Hot Pie for free Review ~222,600 members in Sydney 55,700 ♀ · 167,000 ♂

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Key facts

Casual datingSwingersHookups
Pricing: High
Men / women: 75% / 25%

Where demand is highest

The darker a region, the more often this provider is searched for there. 100% marks the region with the highest demand; 50% means half as many searches.

RedHotPie may be a good place to try if you are looking for many types of adult fun. It has plenty of features that are rarely offered on other dating sites (e.g., date finder, webcam sites). Sign up now, it might help you find your date in an instant!

logo OnlyFans ★★★★★ i1 Keep up with your favorite social media stars on OnlyFans! Read more about it here. Try OnlyFans for free Review ~210,600 members in Sydney 52,700 ♀ · 158,000 ♂

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Key facts

Friendship
Pricing: Average
Men / women: 75% / 25%

Where demand is highest

The darker a region, the more often this provider is searched for there. 100% marks the region with the highest demand; 50% means half as many searches.

OnlyFans is a great platform, and members can have fun using the site. It lets you have sexy experiences that are similar to adult dating sites, and perhaps even more with the unique way of how it works. Have fun and get to know your favorite influencer by si…

passion logo Passion.com ★★★★★ i2 Passion.com promises hot dates and steamy encounters for sensual singles all over the world with its interactive and fun features. For casual dating Try Passion.com for free Review ~216,600 members in Sydney 54,200 ♀ · 162,500 ♂

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Key facts

Casual datingHookups
Pricing: High
Men / women: 75% / 25%

Where demand is highest

The darker a region, the more often this provider is searched for there. 100% marks the region with the highest demand; 50% means half as many searches.

Passion.com is an interesting adult site with the plethora of features it offers to its users to make sure that their Passion experience is unlike any other. Granted, there is limited usability for free accounts. However, to apply the glass half-empty or half…

Academic Singles Logo Academic Singles ★★★★★ i2 Find educated Australian singles just like you on Academic Singles. For serious datingBest for highly educated singles Try Academic Singles for free Review ~138,000 members in Sydney 62,100 ♀ · 75,900 ♂

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Serious relationshipFind love
Pricing: High
Men / women: 55% / 45%

Academic Singles is not just a niche dating site for the educated and intellectuals. It is also a matchmaking service that will find you your match based on your personality, not just physical characteristics. Check it out and sign up for free!

Victoria Milan Logo Victoria Milan ★★★★★ i6 Is Victoria Milan dating a match for your desire or a pit for your card? Let’s find out. For casual dating Try Victoria Milan for free Review ~12,000 members in Sydney 4,800 ♀ · 7,200 ♂

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Casual datingAffairsHookups
Pricing: High
Men / women: 60% / 40%

Where demand is highest

The darker a region, the more often this provider is searched for there. 100% marks the region with the highest demand; 50% means half as many searches.

If you are a married or an attached individual seeking to spice up his or her sexual game by engaging in an affair, then Victoria Milan might be the safest site to sign up to.

Logo AdultMatchMaker ★★★★★ i6 Adult Match Maker is an adult casual dating site for singles and couples up for steamy and adventurous nights. For casual datingFor open relationships & swinging Try AdultMatchMaker for free Review ~228,500 members in Sydney 68,600 ♀ · 160,000 ♂

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Casual datingHookupsSwingers
Pricing: High
Men / women: 70% / 30%

Where demand is highest

The darker a region, the more often this provider is searched for there. 100% marks the region with the highest demand; 50% means half as many searches.

Adult Match Maker, Australia's leading casual dating site, boasts a large and diverse member base looking for casual encounters. It offers easy-to-use features and ensures discreet fun with strong identity protection.

Milf Area Logo Milf Area ★★★★★ i4 Is Milf Area the website to satisfy your guilty pleasures and sinful desires? Or is it just another money-profiteering platform? Check our review and find out if it's worth the time or not! For casual dating Try Milf Area for free Review ~22,200 members in Sydney 13,300 ♀ · 8,880 ♂

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Casual datingHookups
Pricing: Average
Men / women: 40% / 60%

If you're a lad looking for some really good time or real life dates with hot and sexy MILFs, then Milf Area might be a good dating platform for you. It seems to offer a great deal to young men and older women seeking the company of each other, particularly i…

Where is interest in online dating strongest?

New South Wales: 52%

Dating in Sydney starts with the right radius

Most people do not date across the whole city for long. Someone in Newtown may happily meet in Surry Hills, while a first date with someone from the Northern Beaches takes more planning. Set your search radius honestly, then widen it when the conversation is worth the trip.

With around 3.9 million residents, Sydney has a large pool of singles. The estimate for the area is 425,700. That sounds generous, and it is, but distance and traffic still decide which matches become actual dates.

Where people meet across Sydney

The city rewards low pressure plans. A walk around Darling Harbour gives you an easy exit if the chemistry is missing. Barangaroo Reserve works better when you want somewhere quieter, while Bondi suits dates that can continue with a longer walk by the water.

Weekday dating often works best near work or transport hubs. Martin Place, Wynyard and Central are practical meeting points, especially when one person is coming from Parramatta or North Sydney. Keep the first meeting public and tell a friend where you are going.

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Do not join all three at once. Pick the one that matches your intention, give it a fair week, and notice whether people actually suggest meeting.

Making distance work

Choose a meeting point near the person who has the longer trip, at least for the first date. Someone travelling from Glebe should not always be expected to cross the city to Darlinghurst. Small gestures matter here because travel time can quietly become the reason a promising match fades.

Top 7 First-Date Ideas in Sydney

  1. Royal Botanic Garden: Walk beside the harbour and let the conversation find its pace.
  2. Art Gallery of New South Wales: A good indoor option when rain ruins a beach plan.
  3. Bondi Beach: Grab a coffee, walk the promenade and keep the date moving.
  4. Barangaroo Reserve: The harbour views give you plenty to talk about without forcing constant eye contact.
  5. Glebe Foreshore: A relaxed waterside route for a date that needs more time than a single drink.
  6. Circular Quay: Meet between the Opera House and the Harbour Bridge, then decide together where to continue.
  7. Manly: The ferry ride makes the trip feel like part of the date, not merely transport.
Singles in Sydney: view of the city
Singles in Sydney: view of the city
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FAQ

How many singles live in Sydney?

The estimated number is around 425,700 singles in the Sydney area. The figure is a live estimate rather than a census count.

Where should singles in Sydney meet for a first date?

Public places such as the Royal Botanic Garden, Barangaroo Reserve or Bondi Beach work well because you can keep the date short or extend it naturally.

Which dating site suits serious singles in Sydney?

eharmony and EliteSingles are the strongest fits if you want a committed relationship and prefer profiles with more detail than a quick swipe app.

How far should I search for a match in Sydney?

Start with a radius you can manage after work, then widen it for someone who seems promising. Traffic and public transport make a short map distance feel longer than expected.
Singles in Sydney: view of the city
Singles in Sydney: view of the city
Founder of DatingScout and Author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies"
Chris founded DatingScout 17 years ago, and today he is one of the leading Online Dating Experts. He is the author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies" and the author of the Internet's largest online dating study analyzing 20 Million Profile Pictures with artificial intelligence. Chris Pleines holds a master degree in media science and appeared in numerous television interviews and publications to give expert advice as well as tips about online dating.

How we calculate these numbers

To estimate roughly how many singles you will find on each portal, we run an elaborate calculation that combines several assumptions. Values from statistics, population figures, the portal's own member numbers and different mathematical distribution methods all feed into this calculation. Please note: our calculated numbers can deviate from the actual regional member counts; that cannot be ruled out. We have optimized the calculation as far as possible so that it produces useful reference values. Deviations can still happen, and we ask for your understanding.